nice memory conversations about theological stuff

I bet all of us have chatted with friends about movies we've seen recently or remember from a long time ago, "remember when that one guy jump over...", "and he said that really funny thing...".

Why can't we have conversations like that about theology? One person would be like "you know the way we totally don't deserve salvation" and another "I love the part about Gods sovereign election, it makes me feel so secure"

I mean, come on! Wouldn't that be amazing!